Tag: divorce

Helping Your Child Through Your Divorce

The period following a formal separation involves many life changes and decisions – and all of them have an impact on younger and older children. It is essential for the child’s security that a basis of trust and honesty is built-up between the parents. Even if said trust is difficult and dishonesty has played a…

How Resentment Is The Silent Killer Of Relationships

In my daily work as a therapist, I deal with couples who are struggling to keep their relationship together. There are many reasons for this and some are more successful than others at working on the issues that divide them. I have found that it really does not matter what the issue is, if the…

Want A New Start? Clear Out The Dead Wood First

Change is never easy but we face it every day. For some it is a terrifying experience, for others an opportunity. We all, see it, feel it and deal with in in different ways. How we see it, feel it and deal with it will generally determine how difficult it will be. I have written…

Podcast: Framework For Conflict Resolution in Relationships

We can safely say that the inability to resolve conflict effectively is one of the main reasons for marriage or relationship breakdown. In this podcast, Dr. Nicholas Jenner introduces a framework which, in his experience, is an effective way to resolve conflict and indeed improve the relationship. For more resources and articles: https://www.drnjenner.com https://boundariesofthesoul.com https://freefromcodependency.com…

Book Excerpt: Conflict And The Window Of Opportunity

I generally have many quarreling couples amongst my clients. You might say some couples are just like that. We all know some that seem to thrive on the tension that exists between them. From my point of view, this is often the norm. Most couples come into therapy because an essential element is missing in…

Podcast: Make Divorce About The Kids, Not You

When divorce shatters the family structure, parents are often on opposing sides, leaving the children in the middle. Learn what can happen during this stressful time and what parents should and should not do to help their kids cope. For more resources and articles by Dr. Jenner, check the links below: https://www.freefromcodependency.com https://www.boundariesofthesoul.com https://www.drnjenner.com

Make Divorce About The Kids, Not You!

Divorce is an ugly business. Anyone who has been through it will testify to the emotional turmoil associated with it. Even the one who instigated the proceedings can be very badly affected by the process. Apart from the emotional issues, there is the legal and mediation process to deal with. No-one is quite the same…

New Podcast: The 4 Pillars To Make Your Relationship Work!

What is the basis of a good relationship? Listen as we discuss the all-important Four Pillars: Honesty, Trust, Respect, and Mutual Benefits. “Our Quest For Happily Ever After… And Why It Sometimes Does Not Work” is Available Now: at 9.99 USD. AMAZON UK: https://goo.gl/pbNa9q AMAZON USA: https://goo.gl/ZSf3ee AMAZON CANADA: https://goo.gl/kMWlaL AMAZON GERMANY: https://goo.gl/VubBGW AMAZON AUSTRALIA:…

Press Release: What Are You Prepared To Do For Your Relationship?

“Being involved romantically with another human being is to use a famous quote “the best and worst of times”. We proclaim our love, often far too quickly, and make irrational decisions. We believe we can take on the world and our own world is in order. Though when it goes wrong, things swing quickly in…