Category: RELATIONSHIPS

Book Excerpt: Conflict And The Window Of Opportunity

I generally have many quarreling couples amongst my clients. You might say some couples are just like that. We all know some that seem to thrive on the tension that exists between them. From my point of view, this is often the norm. Most couples come into therapy because an essential element is missing in…

Our Quest For Happily Ever After : Free for 5 Days

This is a book I am very proud of and I am very happy to share it with you. It is a culmination of years of experience working with couples and teaches that we forget that the simple, fundamental things matter in a relationship. Happy Reading! ” I hope by reading this book, you might…

New Podcast: Make Divorce About The Kids, Not You

When divorce shatters the family structure, parents are often on opposing sides, leaving the children in the middle. Learn what can happen during this stressful time and what parents should and should not do to help their kids cope. For more resources and articles by Dr. Jenner, check the links below: https://www.freefromcodependency.com https://www.boundariesofthesoul.com https://www.drnjenner.com

Make Divorce About The Kids, Not You!

Divorce is an ugly business. Anyone who has been through it will testify to the emotional turmoil associated with it. Even the one who instigated the proceedings can be very badly affected by the process. Apart from the emotional issues, there is the legal and mediation process to deal with. No-one is quite the same…

Dr Jenner Online Therapy: Now With Live Chat !

  Dr Jenner Online Therapy now has installed live chat on www.drnjenner.com       Why use live chat? Here’s why : 1. To ask a question regarding online therapy packages. 2. To request a free consultation without obligation 3. To ask any questions related to mental health AND…. 4. ….. BEST OF ALL….A FREE…

Cheating: What People Really Think

Just recently, infidelity in marriages has been a big topic with some of my clients. It has happened and they are struggling with the aftermath of it. Some have separated, some have separated to try to see if there can be a basis for renewal of the relationship and plan to work on the issues…

Partner Doesn’t Accept Your Boundaries…Get Out!

People like me are always trying to make others see the value of setting healthy boundaries in the spirit of emotional honesty. That is expressing what you feel honestly and assertively when there is a feeling that a boundary needs to be set. In my opinion, if this is done consistently and without the fear…

Emotional Honesty: Are You Doing This?

Most people are emotionally dishonest for various reasons. A bold statement, maybe but in my experience it is a true statement. Look at this quote: “Most of us feel that others will not tolerate emotional honesty. We would rather defend our dishonesty on the grounds that it might hurt others; and having rationalised our phoniness into…

Why Single Women Love Married Men

Any of us who are in a fully committed relationship will have our views on cheating. Some are more liberal than others but every couple will have {hopefully}their own definition of what is acceptable for their relationship. Some define cheating in terms of sexual activity with someone outside marriage. My own opinion is that anything…