Category: FAMILY

Stay Or Go: Its A Choice And Every Choice Has A Consequence

There will be many people who have started the year with the thought that they need to change their relationship status from attached to unattached. Those same people might also have had that thought last year and the year before and maybe even the year before that. The daily grind of ineffective communication, sweating the…

Work On Things That Really Matter To Instigate Change.

One of the biggest difficulties we face when trying to instigate change in our lives is protecting ourselves from the effects of the past and an imagined future. Even when the past has been somewhat dealt with, the brave new world known as our new future life can be difficult to deal with, hold many fears and lead us…

Fed Up Of Time’s Up Opportunism? Me Too!

Hollywood always seems from afar to be a seedy, dirty place, full of self-absorbed people pushing their own agenda. Most of the inhabitants of this false reality world love a bandwagon to jump on and like the proverbial lemming, many will follow. It is a shallow, superficial world that promotes the ridiculous and untalented to…

Life Is Truly Difficult. Our Problem Is….We Expect It To Be Easy.

Consider this famous quote below: “The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.…

Need A Self Help Book?: My Top 5 For Personal Change

I have always been an avid reader and especially of self-help books. I find the positive message they portray encouraging for my work and I often recommend them on to my clients. Even though, I have read many over the years, there are a few that I always go back to and are constant companions.…

How Listening Skills Make The Difference

As a therapist, I do a lot of couples therapy. That means I deal frequently with warring, dysfunctional relationships in most cases. Most people enter couples therapy as a last resort to save their marriage or relationship. Some expect me to tell them what to do. Others are surprised when I tell them it is…

New Podcast: Framework For Conflict Resolution in Relationships

We can safely say that the inability to resolve conflict effectively is one of the main reasons for marriage or relationship breakdown. In this podcast, Dr. Nicholas Jenner introduces a framework which, in his experience, is an effective way to resolve conflict and indeed improve the relationship. For more resources and articles: https://www.drnjenner.com https://boundariesofthesoul.com https://freefromcodependency.com…