Category: COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY

Conditioning Can Be Changed

A client who has been coming to therapy for quite some time, recently had a revelation where she finally realised that her family had conditioned her as a child to behave in a certain way. Intellectually, she always knew this but emotionally she could not accept it. She cried for the first time in years…

Choosing To Be Happy

There are many things that determine our lives for better or worse. Parents play a huge role of course, our environment, influences, relationships and peers also play a part . Out of this melting pot comes a mixture that either leaves us happy, depressed, seeking constant perfectionism or leading an unfulfilled life doing things that we…

Real Change starts with you.

At this time of year, newspapers, magazines and social media are filled with ways we need to change to become successful in the coming year. A new waistline, cutting out that habit that annoys our partner, reducing alcohol or tobacco intake are all on the agenda. Most of the reactive solutions that people come up…

Facing Those Difficult Tasks…

We all do it. We convince ourselves that filing our tax return or planning that career move can wait until tomorrow or next week or next month. We bury our heads in the sand waiting for the right time, knowing that the right time is usually right now. We beat ourselves up because of it knowing that the…