See Your Core Beliefs As A Bag To Be Carried And Sorted Through
We all see the world in a specific way. Call it what you will…..paradigm …window on the world…frame of reference, it is all the same. It dictates to a large…
Month: June 2018
The Narcissist Parent And His Chosen Child
Being in a relationship with a narcissist “type” can be hell. However, what if the narcissist is your parent and has cloned you to be a living “perfect” version of…
Relationships: Building A Foundation On The 4 Pillars
There are many theories, models and assumptions around that pontificate on what keeps two people together over the long-term. You can find books and posts that cover all aspects of…
Once Gone, Never Let Your Narcissist Ex-Partner Return (But Your Child Is A Complication)
It takes a lot to remove a narcissist from your life. Not only the fact that he is not all that willing for you to make that call but also…
The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Therapists
Many people who come into therapy for the first time might find it difficult to imagine what to expect. There are many stereotypical images to draw on in the media…
Are You Truly Listening To Your Partner? Bringing Respect Back To Your Relationship.
As a therapist, I do a lot of couples therapy. That means I deal frequently with warring, dysfunctional relationships in most cases. Most people enter couples therapy as a last…
Sometimes Codependents Need Saving From Themselves
The masses of literature available on the Codependency-Narcissism dance will tell you there are enough of both in this world to make it a big issue. There are many relationships…
In A Relationship, The Small Things Do Truly Matter!
A good marriage with someone we truly love is generally the fairytale that is sold to us by society, sometimes parents and definitely religion. We are all expected to go…