Month: July 2016

The Fear Factor

The old saying goes “Life is about choices. If you don’t like your life, make better choices”.  This is totally correct. We make choices about most of the things that happen to us in our lives. We can choose to stay in a relationship or go, we can mostly choose to be happy or sad,…

Codependents and Break-ups

In my experience in treating codependents that find themselves alone, I often see feelings of guilt, self-blame and an overwhelming sense of responsibility for the break-up: “I could have done more”, “What did I do wrong?” are statements and questions I often hear.

Living In A Dangerous World

We are living in difficult times. The recent spate of terror attacks worldwide (and recently in France) is extremely worrying. Despite high security at airports and at high profile events, the terrorists still find a way to achieve their evil plans. Normal people are being inconvenienced and limited in their daily lives while others freely…

An Added Complication? Relationships in the social media age

Back in the day before widespread use of social media and technology, relationships might have been much easier to conduct. People met in a more traditional way and got to know each other in ways that are slowly dying out today.Writing letters (on paper), phone calls and arranging the next meeting were the extent of…

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Our Quest for Happily Ever After. Now Available on Amazon Kindle : BUY HERE Relationships often fail because we forget the fundamentals of human interaction. We forget to listen, we forget to communicate what we are feeling or thinking. We make assumptions without having real evidence in front of us. We blame our conditioning, our…

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